Does he want my sympathy or is he letting me down gently but I'm not taking the hint?
Q. I was wondering if any of you has an idea of how guys go on about laying a girl down gently. I met this guy 6 months ago online and then he flew in to see me, we went out twice, then he went again on a business tour and will be back in a week or ...
A. 6 February 2012: I'd back off if I were you. Don't call, tweet, email etc...Let him do all the pursuing. I think you will have your answer in short order.... (read in full...)
Should we get another man involved because I cant get my wife to orgasm any more?
Q. My wife and I are seventy still want sex. I can't keep it hard to insert it in the vagina. I have had this problem for about five years, it just will not stay hard long enough, I can have a orgasm my wife uses a strong vibrator,on me and it still ...
A. 6 February 2012: I recommend you keep using the vibrator on each other. Bringing another man into your bedroom would just tarnish the loving memories you and your lovely bride have accrued together all these years.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has no hygiene and no self esteem! What do I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for four years. One of the problems I have with our relationship is that over the past couple of years he has turned into an epic slob. He doesn't just leave a disaster wherever he goes-- He does not brush his ...
A. 6 February 2012: Get a new boyfriend, one that washes himself. Time to trade up Deary.... (read in full...)
Meeting tomorrow with the man I had an affair with a year ago....
Q. I had an affair a year ago - we were both married and it was found out. It tore our families apart and we are now both seperated. I knew this person for approx 10 years and have had feelings for him for a long time. Our affair only lasted three ...
A. 6 February 2012: Are you still with your husband?... (read in full...)
Too shy to ask my boyfriend to kiss me! Help!
Q. Hi I'm 13 and i am shy around my bf and i really want him to kiss me any advice???...
A. 3 February 2012: I'd wait a couple years, you'll be much braver.... (read in full...)
I gave him a deposit but never bought the car, now he wants to keep 20% of the money! Is this legal or should I take him to court?
Q. Hi,i hope someone has a good advice for me in this case.I wanted to buy a car from owner but i did not have enough money.i saw the car and i talk to the owner about it;he ask me to give him what i have and i can bring him the rest and take the car ...
A. 3 February 2012: Hell forget about court costs, just retaining a lawyer is most likely gonna run you more than that 20%. I'd chalk it up to a lesson learned.... (read in full...)
In real life I've never wanted him to kiss me. So is my dream telling me otherwise?
Q. I just turned 18 and im having some confusing feelings. I see one of my mates twice a week (all-day) with a few of our other friends, but I was recently really annoyed by him and vice a versa. We sorted it out last week and that night I had a drea...
A. 3 February 2012: Last night I dreamt about getting my income taxes done and I can guarantee you that I'm NOT in love with the IRS.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get back love after 3 years?
Q. We were in love for nearly 3 years. We know each other quite well, he brought me to see his family and he also visited my house, see my parents everyweek. I am Capricorn and he is Aries. One day, I got angry because he leave me for getting out ...
A. 2 February 2012: Sorry but the reason he is acting like this is because he couldn't care less about you. Stop calling, texting, emailing him. It's time to call it quits Honey.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my mom's ex boyfriend from 23 years ago!
Q. I really need advice,I recently found my moms x from 23yrs ago when I was little he took such good care of me,then a few yrs ltr they went seperate ways,we tried to stay in contact,but failed,now after 20 yrs we are re-united,I have been really ...
A. 2 February 2012: I agree, how would your mom feel about you bonking her ex-boyfriend? And are you sure the ex-boyfriend is interested on that level? Remember you only have one mother.... (read in full...)
I want to be with my soul mate! But it's impossible!
Q. Reunited with my highschool sweetheart and she says she has always missed and loved me. I feel like she is my soulmate. I am getting a divorce currently seperated and she is in a loveless marriage but she has children we want so much to be together ...
A. 2 February 2012: So why is she staying in this so called loveless marriage? Are you sure you aren't being hoodwinked? And by the way, you haven't "reunited" if she is still married, you are just or just on the verge of committing adultery.... (read in full...)
We cant ever get married because he is 5 years younger than me, should I give up on the relationship now or carry on with him until I meet a more suitable partner?
Q. Dear cupid, I thank you for your enormous help that you've been rendering to us, I hope that you'll also see to my problem. I have a boyfriend whom I love so much and he loves me too, but my problem now is that I'm 5 years older than him. So I'm so ...
A. 1 February 2012: A 5 year difference is huge if you are 10 and he is 5, or 15 and 10, or 20 and 15, but 29 and 24...not so much.... (read in full...)
The heat wants what the heart wants....so do I tell my married lover how I feel about him knowing he would walk away? Or just keep quiet and carry on witht the affair?
Q. Im hurting and need some advice. I just came out of a horrible divorce and is still going through a nightmare of fighting and possible custody battle with my ex husband. Im trying to get my life back together and doing pretty good. Everything I do ...
A. 1 February 2012: Tell him how you feel and watch him walk away. "the heart wants what the heart wants"...oh please... (read in full...)
My husband tells his family every detail about our private life. Should I leave him?
Q. My husband of 26 years ago continuously tells everything to his family what happens in our life. Then the family becomes judgmental of our life. This is very humiliating for me. And we don't even live in the same country. They never tell their own ...
A. 31 January 2012: You've been putting up with it for 26 years, why are you addressing this now?... (read in full...)
He's 50, fit, separated and I want it to work. BUT? Can this relationship work better? How?
Q. This is long, so thank you to whoever is reading this… I’ve been in a relationship with a truly wonderful man for just over 3 years. I am now 26 and he is 50. Fortunately he has aged well and he keeps fit. I met him when he supposedly was separa...
A. 31 January 2012: When you ask him why he hasn't gotten a divorce yet, what does he tell you?... (read in full...)
Age difference and a dying girl
Q. Now, I'm not the type of girl to fall head over heels for anyone! In fact, I'm a junior in high school and I've never dated before. I'm really happy about this too. Not just proud but happy. I love being by myself and see no use for high school ...
A. 30 January 2012: If your parents and his parents are okay with it, then date him if you want. I personally would not let an 8th grader of mine date but perhaps his parents are more lenient. But good luck with your surgery whether you date the guy or not.... (read in full...)
I'm eight months pregnant and the baby's father is incommunicado.
Q. Hello, I need some advice please, I'm 35 weeks pregnant and the baby's father hasn't been in contact with me since we split up 3 month ago. I've tried ringing him and have had no answer to my calls or texts. Its like he isn't interested, and I hear ...
A. 30 January 2012: Make sure you get child support from the guy.... (read in full...)
Circumcized or uncircumsized? Which do females prefer?
Q. Hi, I want to know if girls like penis uncircumcised or cirmcumcised? I'm french and in my country we are all uncut. It's about religion and culture, what is it in your country (well about muslim and jew I know) but for others country pls let ...
A. 30 January 2012: A few hours after my son was born, the nurse came in and picked him up out of his incubator and told me they were going to "sharpen his pencil". I always thought that was a rather weird turn of phrase and I kind of regretted signing the consent.... (read in full...)
Is there really a 'generic' cheaper Viagra or like name brand men can buy?
Q. Is there really a generic Viagra or like name brand men can buy? Does anyone in the U.S. know of a tried and true ID pill that really works...not the fake stuff that claims to grow your penis. We have been dealing with ID for over a year now, ...
A. 30 January 2012: It's ED not ID. An most insurance will only cover 6 pills. As far as I know it isn't available in generic form however the patent will run out sooner or later.... (read in full...)
How can I hint to him not to get me silver as I'm allergic to it?
Q. hi there agony aunts and uncles, thanks for the good advice i have had from you with problems i have put on here, and also helped everytime, im just wanting to know and i feel a little cheeky saying this, but how do i hint to my boyfriend of nearly ...
A. 27 January 2012: Get clear nail polish and coat the earring backs, posts, and or wires. It works like a charm. It will need to be done again after many wears.... (read in full...)
How can I build a motherdaughter relationship with my stepmother?
Q. Well i'm 13, and when i was 8 my mom and dad split because my mom fell in love with a black guy. At the time i didn't understand i was only told that my mom and dad didn't love each other anymore. Me and my dad were so close that i wanted to l...
A. 27 January 2012: Just quit acting like a spoiled brat to her and the relationship between you two will begin to flourish. Start behaving yourself and she'll figure it out.... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 27 January 2012: The couch in the den isn't that comfortable anyway. Best wishes Kiddo.... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 26 January 2012: Stay with me? Well I guess I can make up the couch in the den........ (read in full...)
What should a teenager wear to a posh restaurant?
Q. Hey guys, I am to go out with a "friend" on saturday night for dinner and I don't know what to wear, basically. We're both 17 so it's not like I have a suit and I wouldn't really feel comfortable in a shirt/trousers. It is a posh restaurant and i...
A. 25 January 2012: Really nice restaurants sometimes require a tie so I would wear one or bring one along. Do you have a nice sweater to wear over the shrirt and tie?... (read in full...)
Is it odd that this guy's so keen to make things more private or am I just over reacting? Also, what's your opinion on the age gap between us?
Q. Sorry if this is a tad long, but I would love an opinion and want to fully explain what's going on. I work in a video store. This guy has come in a few times and has always seemed quite nice, but i assumed he was just a friendly customer. On his...
A. 25 January 2012: Of course we will never know for sure how close you were to danger but I'm glad I won't be seeing you on the evening news.... (read in full...)
How do I handle this relationship? He's 22 and I'm 15. My parents do not know about him yet
Q. I've got a situation.. I'm a 15 year old girl that's in love with a 22 year old man. I met him when I had just turned 15 one month before and he had been 21 for about 7 months. We started talking and when we hung out for the first time it was like...
A. 24 January 2012: What I'd like to know is how you can constantly hang out with the guy when he's home and not have your parents know. Heckfire you can't even drive yet! What's wrong with parents these days?... (read in full...)
I am tempted to have sex with my ex. He is flirting with me and I really would like to respond! Please advice?
Q. Hey guys, I'm getting tempted by my ex and don't want to cheat on my bf, what should I do? My ex sends me racy FB and text messages, and has asked for/sent me pictures of himself in various stages of undress, telling me what he would do to me if we ...
A. 24 January 2012: You either care about hurting other people or you don't. You either have honor and integrity or you don't. We are a bunch of anonymous people on the internet who certainly cannot be expected to build your character for you. ... (read in full...)
Is it odd that this guy's so keen to make things more private or am I just over reacting? Also, what's your opinion on the age gap between us?
Q. Sorry if this is a tad long, but I would love an opinion and want to fully explain what's going on. I work in a video store. This guy has come in a few times and has always seemed quite nice, but i assumed he was just a friendly customer. On his...
A. 24 January 2012: He sounds dangerous to me. I don't think I'd even go to the coffee shop with the guy. Your gut instinct is telling you the same thing. Be careful, be very careful.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to sleep with your first cousin ?
Q. i have left my husband and son and am sleeping with my first cousin,i have my teenage daughter with me and am living just a few yards from my husband and son.my son is very upset and thinks he and his sister will get a lot of bullying form other ...
A. 21 January 2012: Okay which one of you blew out the margin? Humm Mitch?... (read in full...)
Why do teenagers get more criticism, when they become pregnant?
Q. ok im 18 now and before i tell u my story i have a question.. why is it that when somebody young ends up pregnant they are judged and discouraged. sometimes even pretty much told to have an abortion..when we can be just as good as parents as some 30 ...
A. 21 January 2012: 'When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things." I had 3+ boyfriends during my teenage years. Each of whom I was sure was my soulmate I was destined to marry. You could of talked to ... (read in full...)
Am I Playing Hard To Get?
Q. A guy I went out with twice texted me on the fourth day saying he had fun but he'll be out of town on business during the week. He asked to see me on the following weekend but we didn't say when, what time, etc. There was no other contact during ...
A. 20 January 2012: I think you absolutely did the right thing. What did he expect, that you should leave your entire weekend open waiting to hear from him? Nuts to that, you taught him a lesson he needed to learn.... (read in full...)
What are girl's erect penis shape fantasies?
Q. I Always wonder what erect penis shape makes girls more horny when they look at it (upward , downward or straight) ? and why? what shape of erect penis(upward , downward or straight) do you girls imagine in your fantaces? PLEASE answ...
A. 20 January 2012: The only time I had a penis fantasy was when we went camping and forgot the tent pole.... (read in full...)
Online fling caused my guy to walk out of a 3 year relationship?
Q. Is a stupid online fling what i had a good reason for my guy of 3 years to walk out on me and our 2 kids? I never even went meeting the guy. The worst i did was a bit of naughty chat. Would you agony aunts think he was looking for an excuse to bail ...
A. 20 January 2012: He who is unfaithful in little will be unfaithful in much.... (read in full...)
How do you live up to the reputation of a man's 1st love?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend almost half a year. its my 2nd relationship. hes had lots if im honest but only ever been in love once, with his fisrt girlfriend. and i feel like i'll never be able to match her or be as good as her. he told me himself ...
A. 19 January 2012: He told you you were 2nd best? What a tool. Why on earth would you be willing to settle for that?... (read in full...)
How to keep my new girlfriend from cheating, without seeming over-bearing?
Q. I am a girl, with a girlfriend and we have been together for a month and a few days. I looked at her facebook the other day and a girl she used to have a thing with has been messaging her, and she's been texting her phone also. To keep my girlf...
A. 19 January 2012: Do you think that maybe your relationship is a tad lopsided? Perhaps you are more committed to it than she is. The only way to truly find out is to let her have the freedom to make her own decisions. Trying to control another person never works out ... (read in full...)
How close is too close?
Q. Hi Advice sought on how to handle a prospective 13 year old step daughter. She came to stay with us for the school holidays (nearly 5 weeks). It has been one of the most stressful times for me as she seems to have set up some kind of competit...
A. 18 January 2012: I'm with Cindy, just wait it out, once she sees you're in it for good, she most likely with scale things down. Also when new boyfriends appear on the scene she'll be less interested in getting all of Dad's attention. Time is your best friend on this ... (read in full...)
Can all women have squirting orgasms?
Q. I'm in my early 40's and my question is about squirting orgasms, which I have never had. I have had a vaginal orgasm only twice, both on my own. Most of my orgasms are clitoral and extremely satisfying. Do you think it is true that every woman...
A. 18 January 2012: I squirt when I sneeze does that count?... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love but he hasn't called me in a week
Q. So here is my problem. I think that I am in love. This makes absolutely no sense. Here is my story... I was in his class, he was my professor, I his student. There was some sexual comments made but never to the extent where someone would report it, ...
A. 17 January 2012: Maybe he decided that his job was more important than a fling with a coed. If you are a student at the sam university that he teaches at, whether directly a student of his or not, he can get sacked.... (read in full...)
I can't stand my boyfriend's best friend and I don't know what to do about it.
Q. I'm having an issue with my boyfriend's bestfriend. They've been friends since they were babies but I can't stand him. I just think he's an idiot and a bad influence. I normally have a high tolerance for people but I actually can't stand to be ...
A. 11 January 2012: If you can't put up with the guy then I guess you will have to break up with your boyfriend. You certainly have no right to tell him who he can and cannot have as a friend.... (read in full...)
Why do men send flowers?
Q. What does it mean when a guy sends you flowers? Does it mean he likes you or he's expressing his feelings for you indirectly?...
A. 10 January 2012: It means that he forgot that Saturday was your anniversary and got up early and went fishing instead of snuggling in bed then going out to breakfast with the love of his life and now he knows he'd better do something quick fast and in a hurry or ... (read in full...)
What do you think about during sex?
Q. I am curious to know what other people think about during sex. I asked a girlfriend this once and she laughed and then started to speak, but then declined to answer saying that it would ruin it for her if she told me. I am guessing my w...
A. 10 January 2012: Beige...I think I'll paint the ceiling beige....... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 8 November 2011: Buy him a 2012 calendar and tell him you want him to pick one very special day for you two to become one, or some such schmaltzy phraseology.... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 8 November 2011: Hey once he gets over 40 you guys will start to blend big time. How's his hair line? ... (read in full...)
I need help preparing a marriage proposal
Q. Ok I always help folks here now I need YOUR help... My boyfriend and I are a very non-traditional couple. He is 13 years younger than I am (he's 38 and I'm 51) We were Long Distance We started out as NSA/FWB (I was in an open marriag...
A. 8 November 2011: Tell him it's either marriage or adoption and he gets to choose. You both have a sense of humor right?... (read in full...)
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