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writes: My son will scream violently if i dont't do something for him right away, even if i have said yes! The problem them esculates where he loses control and will lash out at me, then we end up with world war 3, he is generally a good boy, but this one i have no answers for and have tried everything, please help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2006): I recommend getting a book to read by Jo Frost titled, "Supernanny~How to Get the Best from Your Children"
as some bed time reading and for the daytime with said son; some counselling to help deal with his anger issues, his insecurities and to see if he may be struggling with some disorder.
Agreed about talking to your Family Doctor and being open and honest about your concerns.
Also the counsellor is able to identify what it may be and recommend you to a specialist in what it may be.
I send you my wishes.
*hugs*
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reader, Mr S  +, writes (18 July 2006):
 I would suggest that you try to get an appointment with a behaviour expert via your GP they can help identify problems, this service is available on the NHS (UK only) be prepared for scrutiny but the end results can be dramatic. They will check that the Childs problems are not due to inappropriate parenting; they will suggest strategies for dealing with inappropriate behaviour by your child and go onto testing for conditions like ADHD, ADH, PDD ect don’t be put off you will get a sympathetic and understanding herring.
I hope this helps good luck.
Good Luck
Mr S
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reader, sammie +, writes (6 July 2006):
 hya hunni this is a hard one because i no how hard it is to see you baby upset no matter how old they are and sometimes you wish you could just let them have everything that they want but that isnt the case i will tell you what i didi for my little boy and see ifit helps you well i got him a sticker chart and i told him that if he eats his food good he will get a sticker for each meal and then if he is good troughout the day then he will get anpther sticker for that so if i could see that something was going to happen i would try to distract him and remind him that if he is good he will get a sticker and that made him really happy because it was a reward then every night wewould sit down and fill in his chart he could get up to 8 a day if he had sx stickers that day he would get a big sticker and if he had all 8 then he gets 2 big stickers then at the end of the week if he had 8 or more big stickers we would take him out for a treat ( this can be anything going to the park, swimming, etc) and he loved it it was the whole thing of being rewarded all the time now i will say it didnt work straight away it will take time for him to get used to but when he is it was brill and he would say mummy if i eat all this can i have a sticker and that was lovely well i hope this help you and if you have any other things you need to ask feel free to private email me i have a few tips a hand take care samx
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